Monday, April 13, 2009

Question for women ONLY about Valentine's Day gift-giving?

I%26#039;d like to know if it is acceptable to send a bouquet of red roses to a woman for Valentine%26#039;s Day if the woman is just a friend who I visit and chat with from time to time but someone who I%26#039;m not dating or involved with. I asked her out on a date twice over the last few months and the first time she said she couldn%26#039;t but the second time I gave her my number and she said she would call me sometime but never did.





When I do visit her to say %26quot;hi%26quot;, she is usually friendly and polite towards me so she seems to see me as a friend.





My intention in giving her the roses is only to let her know that I%26#039;m still interested in her despite her not calling me.





Should I send her the flowers or not? And if so, should I have them sent by a delivery person or should I deliver them in person to her???

Question for women ONLY about Valentine%26#039;s Day gift-giving?
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peace out


have a happy valetine%26#039;s day.
Reply:It might be depending on the kind a nice white rose or something other than a rose def not a yellow or red rose...in person may be better so you can explain your self!
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t send her red if you consider her %26#039;just a friend%26#039; but it sounds like you want more than that.
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t send a dozen, I would get 3 so you aren%26#039;t to over bearing.
Reply:You would not be wrong to send them - but you might be disappointed in her reaction.





Send them with no expectations. Can you do that?





I would have them delivered. If you show up - it%26#039;s as if you%26#039;re expecting something. Also - if you show up in person - there is a chance that she will not accept them from you.





If she likes you as a friend - and you are interested in more - it%26#039;s already an uncomfortable situation for her. All she really can do is tell you that she is flattered and sorry that she doesn%26#039;t feel the same way. If you%26#039;re hoping you%26#039;ll grow on her - through acts of kindness - and you don%26#039;t mind spending money KNOWING that you very likely will not get a positive response - then go for it.
Reply:I think it would be okay, but maybe not roses. Roses send a strong message. Maybe something more %26quot;friendly%26quot;. Like a bouquet of mixed flowers. And a simple happy valentines day note. Coming on too strong may push her away. You want to keep the friendship going.
Reply:roses are for love, give her carnations or something instead
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t send a whole bouquet, I would take one pink rose to her. Then maybe ask her out for coffee or lunch. Then it%26#039;s more friendly than date-ish, that way in conversation you could mention that you are still interested and that you would like to take her out on a date sometime. Just be careful she may end up distancing herself from you if she doesn%26#039;t want to date you. Sounds like she might be politely trying to brush you off as far as dating goes.
Reply:No...I think that is a bad idea. She obviously just wants to be friends and isn%26#039;t into dating you. So what kind of visits do you have? Do you stalk her at work, or do you guys actually hang out as friends? Either way, roses are not the way to go. She already knows that you like her since you asked her out twice before. Smothering her with gifts will just boost her ego, or creep her out. If you are actually friends for real, than just get her something small that is funny and sweet...and not something that says I love you either.
Reply:Is she currently in a relationship? You don%26#039;t want to cause her any problems. I would have them delivered %26amp; DON%26#039;T send red because that means love. Send yellow as a symbol of friendship.
Reply:The thing that i would do is give her the roses in person. That shows her that you do care for her, and if she sees that you like her %26quot;more than a friend%26quot; she will probably like you too. Good Luck!!
Reply:send them to her and have them delivered. She will know you are still interested and it%26#039;s exciting to get roses delivered to you. Have a nice little note attached to them. Then she will have to call you to say thank you.
Reply:I D0N%26#039;T KN0W


I DIDN%26#039;T READ WAT Y0U WR0TE..
Reply:Don%26#039;t send a full bouquet - from what you have stated she is being polite, but not out to jump on that request for a date.





What I would do is get her a few (3) Yellow roses (for friendship) and tie them together with a ribbon - but here%26#039;s the trick - attach a note in the ribbon as well (holepunch) just a small note no bigger than 2X2. On the note write something along the lines of %26quot;Just want to get to know you more as a friend. Hope you have a fabulous day. Going out for a drink @ ____ 7pm, would love for you to join.%26quot; then sign your name and #. Deliver it to her, just before she is to get off of work. Make light conversation, %26quot;saw these and thought of you, so I brought them by.%26quot; Don%26#039;t mention what%26#039;s in the card unless she brings it up and leave.





The whole idea is to be intreaging (sp) without being overbearing - which the dozen red would do, especially if your not dating.





Whatever your results, Good Luck and have a FABULOUS V-Day!
Reply:Go send her flowers and do it in person so u can see her reactions..


-If your relationship is strictly friendly, stick with pale-colored roses, as in general, they signify friendship.


-Pale pink and peach colors signify admiration, sweetness, and gratitude, which make these roses the perfect choices for floral gifts of friendship.


-White roses symbolize innocent love. They say “I’m worthy of you,” and are just simply beautiful.


-Light and dark pink roses symbolize joy and thankfulness, and would make a beautiful way to say how happy you are to have that special someone in your life.


-A dozen Red roses is considered to be the ultimate declaration of love.





Best of Luck!
Reply:roses are one way to say %26quot;i love you more then a friend%26quot; and i think you should send the roses with a mail carrier but not a hot one then she%26#039;ll think those are from him but don%26#039;t make it a really nerdy one either



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