How should I interpret his behavior?!?!?

My BF and I have been together for 2 yrs he has always been good to me but lately we been arguing A LOT! So I sent him flowers today and signed them ur secret admirer. I spoke to him 3 times and even confirmed from the delivery person HE HAS RECEIVED THEM! But he has not mentioned them to me. Should I be concerned?

How should I interpret his behavior?!?!?
No, you shouldn%26#039;t. He clearly thinks they%26#039;re from A SECRET ADMIRER, not his g/f playing games. He probably feels weird about telling you, fearing it will cause more tension. He%26#039;s probably racking his brains (and possibly making an *** of himself) trying to find out who sent them. You should fess up, get the credit for the nice gesture, and work from there on improving things between you.
Reply:TJ is right-besides, if he doesn%26#039;t even mention it to you,....well...you%26#039;d better go talk to him...;) Report It

Reply:Maybe he%26#039;s embarrassed by your generosity. I agree...you definitely need to talk to him. Report It

Reply:i agree Report It

Reply:His behavior does seem very strange. A normal person would thank you and/or acknowledge the flowers. His lack of acknowledgment could mean many things, but above all it means he%26#039;s weird and immature. If I were you, I would be on my guard (if you insist on staying in the relationship). Report It

Reply:Trick him up, tell him you were thinking about sending him flowers but you changed you mind so that way he cant say he forgot Report It

Reply:BE AFRAID BE VERY AFRAID
Reply:Sometimes we as females read more into things then they really are. I would suggest just wait. When you point a finger at someone else you are pointing three back at you. Listen, realize what you are really arguing about. The root of the problem. Are you arguing with him because you feel neglected? or are you arguing to avoid something that you already know. Why sign secret admirer? He may think that he really has a secret admirer, that it is not you and to not start another argument with you, he doesn%26#039;t say anything.
Reply:I think that maybe, it was misinterpreted on his part. Maybe he thought the flowers were from someone else, and didn%26#039;t mention it because he doesn%26#039;t want things to get worse. It makes sense, if he wants to stay together, not to scare you by saying you might have competition.
Reply:You%26#039;re testing his faithfulness in a sneaky way. If he hasn%26#039;t brought it up to you then well I guess maybe he is considering the possibility of getting with someone else but it sounds like you aren%26#039;t being honest with him either which may be why your relationship is in trouble in the first place.



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