Monday, April 13, 2009

I want to have something delivered to my boyfriends office for his birthday, but I dont want to embarass him.?

What do you think I should deliver to him? are there any good links to delivery websites for men? / if you are a guy what would you like delivered to your office? (and im not getting him flowers!) Thanks!!

I want to have something delivered to my boyfriends office for his birthday, but I dont want to embarass him.?
guys don%26#039;t like to receive gifts in their office. Make a beautiful wish for him and send it to him!


http://themostexpensivewish.com/


it%26#039;s surprising, it%26#039;s a good way to tell him something special ; it%26#039;s not embarrassing ;he will be touched...
Reply:give him a cup of coffee
Reply:dont worry about it yor boyfriend wont mind he%26#039;ll thin it sweet



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What is the most tragic suicide that you've personally dealt with?

Sorry if this topic upsets anyone, but I%26#039;m trying to work through my own pain of losing someone close to me, and talking about this helps. A few months ago the girl who was to be the maid of honor at our wedding killed herself. Sarah believed that she screwed up a college entrance exam that she thought would be her last hope for a career (after being out of work and depressed for over a year). She laid out on the railroad tracks after getting drunk on liquor, and apparently was motionless (passed out) when the train operator hit the brakes too late. It totally devastated her family, my Fiancee%26#039;, everyone. Her entire family is on medication now (including two sisters and a brother), no one can work, and they visit the grave site every day with fresh flowers hoping a miracle will happen. Now the worst part. She had actually been accepted by the college, and the couriers had screwed up the delivery of the acceptance notice. Sooooooo tragic. The parents have the notice framed and up on the wall at home as a source of pride. Their pastor has mentioned that they need to get on with their lives, but they can%26#039;t. They have turned her bedroom into a sort of shrine.


I really don%26#039;t know what to think about this as it is all like some kind of terrible nightmare, I don%26#039;t think I%26#039;ve really heard of any other worse than this. We feel like we are the only ones who have to go through this. Thanks for listenening.

What is the most tragic suicide that you%26#039;ve personally dealt with?
Last February my boyfriends mother killed herself, his brother found her in the basement after drinking an extensive amount of anti-freeze. They did an autopsy and found it in her stomach.. so tragic.





My boyfriend doesn%26#039;t talk about his mother, and it worries me too. He seems to be numb from any pain that he might have felt after she killed herself. I%26#039;m currently trying to encourage him to go to therapy.





My father died in 2000 and it was a very tragic loss for me, I was very close to my dad, he didn%26#039;t kill himself however, but the loss of a loved one is very difficult to deal with no matter how they died.





My suggestion would be to find a support group in a local church or talking with a grievence councelor of some kind. Support groups can help a great deal because you won%26#039;t feel so alone, and you will find that many people have a lot in common.





I live in Michigan and there are support groups of suicide survivors located throughout the state, there might be one where you live as well.
Reply:Try this:





http://www.elisabethkublerross.com/
Reply:may GOD BLESS HER SOUL i am sorry that it happen to Sarah,i no that she is with GOD and his taking good care of her.don%26#039;t forget she watching over you all.you no it takes just a second to kill yourself.i am myself in severe depression,and i tried to kill myself in the last 3 years and I%26#039;ve done it five time.i don%26#039;t want to tell you how i did it because i don%26#039;t want to see any body do it.but i thank GOD,MY GUARDIAN ANGEL,AND ALL OF THE OTHER ANGELS,because i am a live to day.i still thinking of do it but am afraid to be cripple.so i ask GOD,the Angels to help me its struggle every day,and i have to take a lot of pills to help myself every day,why i want to do that i think it my neuron that don%26#039;t work good and because what i did well i have destroy things in me.
Reply:My best friend was 47 and relapsed on alcholol at a casino after 8 years of sobriety....She got arrested that night and hung herself in the jail because of shame. Take care, Kitty
Reply:You are not alone, that%26#039;s for sure. Suicide is a terrible thing, I tried to kill myself when I was a young girl and of course did not succeed. All I can tell you is at the time I wasn%26#039;t thinking of what would happen afterwords, where I would go when I died and I wasn%26#039;t thinking of what my friends and family would have to deal with afterwards... I was being selfish only thinking of my pain and my pain really wasn%26#039;t nothing that bad. Well that was a long time ago and since then I have had to deal with my husbands mother killing her self , a year later his father, I have had 2 friends kill themselves and a little over 2 years ago my mother%26#039;s husband killed himself. It has showed me how selfish this act is, because of what your family and friends have to go through and it is just awful. I have God in my life and it helps. I believe it is a sin to take a life God gave you and throw it away like it was nothing, but I also think God holds a special healing place for these lost souls. I can%26#039;t tell you it ever feels better, because that pain is always there, but it does seem to ease as time goes by. As for your friends family all you can do is be there to listen to them and help keep her spirit alive, but you have to go on with your life believe me your friend in heaven realizes what she has done now and she would not want you to dwell on this all your life. I am very sorry for your loss. Take care.
Reply:I can relate to your feelings and tragic loss as my son%26#039;s best friend killed himself just 5 months ago. He was only 15 yrs old and his mother found him hung in his closet. My son has Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome now and is seeing a counselor. What makes the situation worse is no one had no clue as to why he did this. I find myself wondering all the time %26quot;what could I have done to help him%26quot; but in reality he was obviously suffering from the inside over a deeper issue than anyone could see. It really messed my son up he is now on anti-depressants, can%26#039;t go to school, has nightmares, and is agoraphobic (can%26#039;t leave the house%26quot; so I know first hand the tragic and devastation of going through the suicide of someone close to your family.



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What can you tell me about periwing.com or other sites like it?

I know there have been several questions posted on this subject, but I wanted to see if there are any more recent answers. I was looking for 2 wedding dresses that I LOVE, but are really pricey (one of them is $1400...out of my budget) and I found periwing.com makes it for a little over $100! Does anyone have any recent experience with them, preferably personal (not a friend of a friend...) experience?? If so, is it worth it? How is the fabric, is it obvious its a knock-off and cheap looking? How long did delivery, etc take? I know the whole %26quot;you get what you pay for%26quot;, but if its worth it then I%26#039;d love to put that money saved towards flowers or something for the wedding!!

What can you tell me about periwing.com or other sites like it?
I am having a similar experience- I also love a $1500 dress that%26#039;s listed at just $120 on periwing.com. I%26#039;ve heard mixed reviews, but I think I%26#039;m going to give it a chance just to see what I get. It%26#039;s a small loss if it turns out horrible, and I figure I can always take it to a consignment shop or ebay if I choose not to wear it. Another option is to google the designer and style of the dress you love and shop around for a great price. Bestbridalprices.com and jaysbridal.net are low. There are many others available online at wholesale prices as well. I contacted a small shop whose owner had a wholesale license and can find my exact dress for $800. In all, periwing is a gamble and- if you have the time for error and the extra $100 I would try it. Depending on what you want, it could work... Best of luck!
Reply:Why dont you chec out Davids bridal
Reply:If a dress normally costs $1400 and they are selling on it this website for $100, I defiently wouldn%26#039;t trust it. The best thing is to find a dress that fits your budget and try it on in person. Buying something as important as a wedding dress on the internet is not something I recommend. This is a special day and you should feel like a princess trying on those dresses. Shop around your city and other cities close by and I%26#039;m sure you will find something. How about checking out www.yellowpages.com for local listings in your area? Good luck and may God bless you on this special day of your life!!!



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English Hospitality?

An American tourist in London decides to skip his tour group and explore the city on his own. He wanders around, seeing the sights, occasionally stopping at a quaint pub to soak up the local culture, chat with the locals, and have a pint of bitter.





After a while, he finds himself in a very nice neighbourhood with big, stately residences. No pubs, no stores, no restaurants, and worst of all no public restrooms.





However, he really has to go, after all those Guinness%26#039;s. He finds a narrow side street, with high walls surrounding the adjacent buildings and decides to use the wall to solve his problem.





As he is unzipping, he is tapped on the shoulder by a London bobby, who says, %26quot;Sir, you simply cannot do that here, you know.%26quot;





%26quot;I%26#039;m very sorry, officer,%26quot; replies the American, %26quot;but I really have to go, and I just can%26#039;t find a public restroom.%26quot;





%26quot;Ah, yes,%26quot; said the bobby, %26quot;just follow me%26quot;. He leads the American to a back delivery alley to a gate, which he opens.





%26quot;In there,%26quot; points the bobby, %26quot;whiz away sir, anywhere you like.%26quot;





The fellow enters and finds himself in the most beautiful garden he has ever seen. Manicured grass lawns, statuary, fountains, sculptured hedges, and huge beds of gorgeous flowers, all in perfect bloom.





Since he has the policeman%26#039;s blessing, he relieves himself and feels much more comfortable. As he goes back through the gate, he says to the bobby %26quot;That was really decent of you. Is that what you call English hospitality?%26quot;





%26quot;No sir...%26quot;, replied the bobby, %26quot;that is what we call the French Embassy.%26quot;

English Hospitality?
weeee are not amused mon ami.lol
Reply:lol.....that was good!!:)
Reply:Quite funny, or should I say - Jolly Good!
Reply:Hahaha Keep it up ma..................


Nice
Reply:ha ha ha funny
Reply:Lol! I like it.
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I need ladies opinions for valentines?

My friend is still in High School but she is kind of shy and I really don%26#039;t think she would want flowers delivered to her at school. Expecially since we arn%26#039;t dating and people would ask who are they from and what not.. If I don%26#039;t have them delivered to her school i%26#039;ll hand deliver them to her tonight after I get off work. I do like her as more than a friend though just the opportunity hasn%26#039;t arrived yet for me to make the move. What would be my best choice? Hand delivery or Surprise @ school?

I need ladies opinions for valentines?
I would say hand deliver. More personal. Plus like you said, if she gets them at school, its going to cause questions that she might not want to answer. Plus if you deliver them youself, maybe you could say how you feel and ask her out. Good luck matey!
Reply:try these cute vases and put seeds inside for tulips. then when the spring comes plant them. when they grow up cut them and put them in the vases. makes a really nice gift thats not too expensive.





plus it shows you plan on sticking it through for the long haul. very romantic. goodluck.





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Reply:I think a hand delivery would be best, specially if she%26#039;s shy.
Reply:Surprises are more fun. Than still go see her after work and bring her one extra flower. It sounds sweet.
Reply:How old are you that you are thinking about suprising someone is high school? I would suprise her at home, if her parents permit.
Reply:That%26#039;s a tough call... usually women do like the attention of getting flowers at work/school, but if she%26#039;s shy it could embarass her. I think later is safest...





Ah, I%26#039;m not sure... good luck with whatever you decide.
Reply:School. Its a better surprise. She%26#039;ll be thrilled.
Reply:I would say surprise her at school. I bet it would make her day.
Reply:I say take them to her yourself. Use this chance to tell her how you really feel. Suck it up there is no better day then valentine%26#039;s day to tell someone how you really feel. If she is like most women she is prob. spending the day wishing that she had someone in her life that she cared for enough to be in a relationship with! Good Luck.
Reply:Hand delivery.....



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Eastenders - Arthur Fowlers antique clock?

There was an episode of Eastenders back in around 1995, 1996, and Arthur Fowler was in receipt of delivery of an antique clock. As the episode progressed, Arthur and Willy Roper (the guy that ultimately framed him regarding the embezzlement of funds for the %26#039;flowering Walford%26#039; campaign, or whatever it was called) speculated on who could have sent him the clock, and why. As far as I know, this was never resolved. Ever. I know it%26#039;s trivial, but it%26#039;s stuff like this that keeps me awake at night. Please advise.

Eastenders - Arthur Fowlers antique clock?
chill out dude it%26#039;s not the end of time
Reply:I wish I could remember. I loved the character.It was so sad when the writers killed him off. Still miss him and I also miss Nigel!



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What does this mean in woman language?

My girlfriend split up with me 1 month ago(the reason is still unclear, even to her i think) I sent her a gift certificate and flowers just before Christmas. She received them the day she was writing a University exam. She contacted me 1 week after the delivery and after catching up a bit, the first thing she said about the gift was that it was a distraction. Eventually she did say thank you. If she did the breaking up and i%26#039;ve been respecting her space by not contacting her, then why was it %26quot; a distraction%26quot;? What does that mean?

What does this mean in woman language?
You need to leave her alone, she is not ready for the relationship and maybe your gift made her think about it when she should have been thinking about her exam.
Reply:She sounds confused. Maybe she felt like you were sending her the gift without regard for her exam and she was offended (hence the %26quot;distraction%26quot;). But the fact that she contacted you indicates to me that she must have strong feelings for you. Even if she%26#039;s calling to insult you, she%26#039;s still calling you. She could have just ignored it and said nothing. I think she wants to talk to you but doesn%26#039;t want to commit to it. Let her come to you.
Reply:It means she had to stop what she was doing and think about you. Could be bad or good....
Reply:It means that u sound like a very nice guy..............in love with a not so nice girl. Move on she has made it very clear that she wants to move on.
Reply:welcome to the dark world of women my friend. what a woman says and what she means by sayng that, is a mystery to everyman who came in contact with women. if she called you one week later, then it means she has some feelings for you.


regards


khan
Reply:Most likely she%26#039;s confused and your gift made her %26#039;pause%26#039;. Keep gentle contact with her if you like and see what happens next.
Reply:A better set of questions for you.





Why try to figure out what she meant? Is she retarded or merely trying not to give you any answers? She is a big girl and she should be made to prove it by her actions. She should be able to communicate honestly and clearly. If she cant/more likely wont, then it is either by choice or she is stupid. In neither case should you take one moment to try to figure it out. She is the one who should explain it. You should also be glad that she has broken it off, for it would not improve in the future. Trust me on this.
Reply:She%26#039;s weird, that%26#039;s a mean thign to say to someone who took the time out of their day to do something nice for you. Get rid of her... if you don%26#039;t even know why you 2 broke up maybe she just wasn%26#039;t into it or like I said she%26#039;s just weird. I%26#039;d be super excited to receive random flowers! Even if they are distracting... plus they couldn%26#039;t of been all that distracting to her since it took her a whole week to call.
Reply:I%26#039;m a little confused by that as well and I%26#039;m a woman. It could mean one of two things:





1) It was a positive distraction as she%26#039;d been studying so hard and it gave her a much needed break or cheered her up





OR





2) It was a negative distraction and broke her concentration or messed with her flow or Chi while studying/ writing her exam.





Either way, I would move on if I were you.
Reply:It%26#039;s simple she had no REAL grounds to break up with you, and she still has feelings for you and the Gifts were a reminder that she still feelings for you Hence she calls them a %26quot;Distraction%26quot;.





Hint: GO FOR HER
Reply:maybe its a distraction because shes been thinking of you and your gift is making her think about you and its distracting her from other things :)...does that help?
Reply:Maybe she meant it made her think of you when she was trying to concentrate on exams. If she broke up with you and is not contacting you let her go she probably wants it to be over.
Reply:Just forget about her she is plain mean and rude dont call her and if she calls you tell her you are bussy and that you will call her back and dont you will see that eventually she will be looking for you she is just playing games
Reply:In woman language that means that she is unsure of her feelings towards you, that she has too many things going on and with all the thought you put into buying and sending her that, it threw her off and couldn%26#039;t think straight. That or it means she%26#039;s just crazy.
Reply:%26quot;it%26quot; wasn%26#039;t a distraction. You were a distraction. Pay the receptionsist on the way out. Thank you.



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